Constructive Conversations
 
“The problem with communication is
the illusion that it has been accomplished.”
~ George Bernard Shaw

River StonesIt is the unique capability of language that allows us as humans to alter the course of our lives. Everything we do is done “in conversation” — with groups, with other individuals and even with ourselves. Why then, with this powerful tool available, do our lives embody such conflict? The potential for conflict is inherent in every conversation and relationship, and even in language itself. Yet we’re often limited in reaching our full potential by how effectively we manage life’s inevitable conflicts. Two factors are at work:

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We’re rarely taught that conflict is a natural part of life, and that it can be managed constructively. As a result, we learn to fear and avoid it.
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We’re rarely taught language skills for having constructive conversations. So when conflict arises, we don’t know how to respond effectively.

It’s time to learn to use the power of language to get the most of your unique potential. Whether it’s to bring resolution to a specific conflict you’ve encountered, or to develop enhanced skills for managing conversations more constructively, I will help you reframe your perspective and learn to create meaningful solutions and exciting possiblities.

Mediation and Conflict Resolution: if you’re in the midst of a situation, in the workplace or at home, where you’re unable to create a workable resolution, I will act as a mediator, either with you individually or with you and others, to help you create satisfying closure.

Artful Communication Skills: if you want to become dramatically more effective in communication, collaboration, and conflict resolution, I’ll help you develop the skills to manage any conversation with elegant effectiveness. Trade in the “language of conflict” for a “language of collaboration.” Trade in the “language of blame” for a “language of personal responsibility.” Communication is about connecting meaningfully with others. I will help you reframe your perspective on conflict and learn the skills you need to manage conflict effectively. As a result, you’ll be able to anticipate and identify the potential for conflict sooner, and dramatically reduce the time you spend thinking about or managing conflict. Restore the valuable energy you need in order to step into the real possibility your life and work hold.

Contact me – for a “constructive conversation” that could change forever your relationship with life’s inevitable conflict.