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Feb 2012: There Are No Contentious Topics

January 31, 2012

“You can either have what you want or you can have the reasons why you can’t have what you want.”   —– Alberto Villoldo, in The Four Insights   My newer clients often speak of the contention and conflict they experience, at home and work. The contention may show up as complaint, argument, anger, stress, anxiety, [...]

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Jan 2012: A Culture of Worry

December 31, 2011

“Fear is the interest paid on a debt you don’t owe.”    —– my fortune cookie this week at the local Asian restaurant  There’s always something. No matter how much peace or freedom we may experience in our lives, it seems there’s always something to worry about. And as our lives become more complex, chaotic, and [...]

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Dec 2011: Falling Off the Edge of the World

November 30, 2011

“We all continually move on the edges of eternity, and are sometimes granted vistas through the fabric of illusion.”                                                                     —– Ansel Adams, Autobiography     There was a time when prevailing belief held that the earth was flat, and if you were to reach the edge, you’d fall off. Although the belief itself has long [...]

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Nov 2011: The Power of Your Innate Potential

November 1, 2011

“And is it not a dream which none of you remember having dreamt that builded this city and fashioned all there is in it? Could you but see the tides of that breath you would cease to see all else, and if you could hear the whispering of the dream you would hear no other [...]

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Oct 2011: Don’t Settle for the Easy Answers

October 1, 2011

“To be human is to become visible while carrying what is hidden as a gift to others.”  —- David Whyte  Life seems to conspire to demand more and more of us – things to do, people to see, tasks at work, cell phones, TV, Facebook, the news, things to buy, etc. Worse, we’re expected to [...]

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Sep 2011: What Are We So Afraid Of?

September 1, 2011

“A problem is solved not by confronting it directly, but by going to a level where no problem exists.”      – Deepak Chopra, and perhaps originally from the Bhagavad Gita In a conversation over coffee recently, I listened as a woman said to me, “You know, Mary is such a close friend. We get along so well. [...]

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Aug 2011: The Holes in Your Bucket

August 1, 2011

“If you don’t know where you’re going, you might end up someplace else.”      – Yogi Berra  If you listen carefully to others (or to yourself, for that matter), you may hear all manner of stories about why life doesn’t work or why things don’t go as desired. Not enough time, too many things to do, [...]

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Jul 2011: Keeping Score

July 1, 2011

“Unthinking respect for authority is the greatest enemy of truth.”   —– Albert Einstein  How’s your life going? To respond by saying “fine” isn’t what I’m up to here. I’m suggesting you inquire deeply into what matters most in your life, and ask how the way you live is making that a reality. This inquiry is [...]

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Jun 2011: Be the River, Not the Levee

June 1, 2011

“Life accepts only partners, not bosses, because self-determination is at the root of being.”  — Finding Our Way, Margaret Wheatley   One of the top stories in the news lately concerns the unusual amount of rainfall in the Midwestern U.S., and the subsequent flooding of the lower Mississippi River. The situation has become dire in terms [...]

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Mar 2011: Getting What You Want … With Grace

March 1, 2011

“To be in touch with your self requires great sensitivity to everything that’s going on here and now.” –Deepak Chopra  Life’s too precious not to enjoy what we want most, and it’s certainly too precious to waste fighting to get it. When we stop to look, however, we often find more evidence of fight than [...]

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